How would I describe her?

How would I describe her?
She’s an angel, I would say.

You’d probably be better off if you just packed up right now and went home. You don’t have a chance.

She’s smarter than you, wittier than you, certainly prettier than you.

She has a lovely exterior, but she’s known pain and hurt and it still lives in her to a great degree. The way she expresses herself reveals it at every turn. She’s very smart and expresses herself very well – highly articulate, practical and insensitive. She’s deep and dark, perhaps even frighteningly so, in ways. She needs love, she needs a lot of love. Give it to her – you’ll find that it will be well worth it, for she’s capable of great love and devotion.

She will spar with you…to test you. Be aware of this and be wary, for she’s very capable and mighty. She wields a swift sword. She is very well armed. She’s a formidable opponent. She’s quick, she’s strong. She’s quite powerful…alluringly seductive, and expertly skilled at using her powers.

I’ll say it again. I don’t think you have any idea of what you’re getting into.

How would I describe her?
She’s an angel, I would say

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Let’s be lovers without love

Let’s watch a movie and argue over which movie we should watch. I’m sure we’ll end up watching both movies, and that will sum up our day together.

Let’s have our morning coffee together. We’ll have a little talk about that nightmare you had last night. I’ll take a sip of my coffee while listening to the story of your nightmare and I’ll tell you that it will be alright. It’s scary but thank god you’re here, you’ll say.

Let’s spend our lazy afternoon together. Maybe i’ll perform and item number or maybe you will play your favorite sport knowing that i am sitting right across the court, writing poems for you.

Let’s play games, be it a racing game or even a game of truth & dare and the loser shall treat the winner to a fancy dinner.

Let’s go on a midnight road trip with no definite destination when most souls are fast asleep. You’ll blast the car speakers with your favorite jams and I will sing out loud, along to the songs with you.

Let’s go camping and I’ll cook for us during the camp because if you were to cook, I’m afraid we’ll be eating nothing but charcoal. Then we’ll watch as the sun sets, and stay up the whole night just to watch the sunrise.

Let’s stay up and talk to each other until 5 in the morning and maybe you’ll tell me why were you mad at your friends for days or why were you afraid to love another soul. I’ll listen, I’ll try my best to stay awake and listen to what you have to say.

Let’s go to the mall. We will enter whichever shop you want and if you happen to like a certain thing from a certain shop, I will buy it for you.

Let’s have a hike on the hill without saying anything to each other. You’ll most probably drag me to the top just so you can tell me how easy it was, and you could do it over and over again.

Let’s act like we came from the same family, like we are hopeless romantics, like we are nothing but the best of friends, like we are one.

Let’s laugh until we cry. Let’s cry until we laugh. Let’s get mad together. Let’s be sad or happy together. Let’s fool around together. Let’s play and tease each other. Let’s do whatever we want, whatever we can.

Let’s do everything together without falling for each other.

Let’s be lovers without love because love is a greed that can’t be filled.

Lets be lovers without love

The Four Agreements

Don Miguel RuizThe Four Agreements Book CoverSince i had a final today, i turned on the procrastinating cloak and went on with this book “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom” by “Don Miguel Ruiz”.

This book made me realize what a cynical asshole I am. By being skeptical of people who appear to suck, I am apparently doing a disservice to myself and to the Creator. And by judging myself when I make mistakes, a.k.a. stressing out when I screw up. Actually, by writing this paragraph I have probably put a few more nails in my psychological coffin.

All joking aside, this is a good little book for the cynicist in all of us (in? How about that is?). Parts of it made me angry because they seemed to stress forgiveness over all else — and yeah, I know that’s generally accepted wisdom and all, but sometimes people need more than forgiveness to move on from things in life, like forgiveness and then perpetual avoidance.

The best part of what the author is teaching here is that you should be unfazed by what people say, think, or do, be it positive or negative — even when it’s directed toward you. The thinking behind it is that people do and say things because of their own situations, not yours, so whenever they say something to or about you, it has nothing to do with you. If someone calls you fat, it’s because they are insecure, no matter how much of a blimp you are. If someone says you are awesome, you don’t need to cling to it like a desperate child because, in theory, you knew you were awesome already.

Plus, this takes no time to read. You could finish it in a commute or two and at least feel like you’d thought things over a little, if nothing else. And, granted, I had been having some insecurity issues surrounding my performance at university, and after reading the “Always Do Your Best” chapter on Sunday Night, I proceeded to have a pretty kick-ass day, so there is definitely irrefutable power in the simplicity presented therein.

To summarize

Be Impeccable with Your Word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

Don’t Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

Don’t Make Assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

Always Do Your Best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

Rating : 3.5/5

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Words of Wisdom

  1. There are plenty of ways to enter a pool. The stairs is not one of them.
  2. Never cancel dinner plans by text message.
  3. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
  4. Be grateful, a little appreciation now or then doesn’t harm.
  5. Life can be unfair, doesn’t mean you have to be too.
  6. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.
  7. Keep a picture of your first fish, first car, and first boy/girlfriend.
  8. To know life’s worth, risk it once in a while.
  9. Hold your heroes to a high standard.
  10. Take a vacation of your cell phone, internet, and TV once a year.
  11. Don’t fill up on bread, no matter how good.
  12. A handshake beats an autograph.
  13. When you’re with new friends, don’t just talk about old friends.
  14. You don’t get to choose your own nickname.
  15. When you marry someone, remember you marry their mother, father, uncle, aunty, niece, nephew, their neighbours, everyone.
  16. Under no circumstances should you ask a woman if she’s pregnant. Try something like “is God sending a special gift ?”
  17. Suck it up every now and again.
  18. Admit it when you’re wrong and stop talking.
  19. Look people in the eye when you thank them.
  20. Forgive yourself for your mistakes.
  21. If you don’t understand, ask before it’s too late.
  22. Carry your mother’s bags. She carried you for nine months.
  23. The opposite sex likes people who shower, try it.
  24. You are what you do, not what you say.
  25. Be kind. Everyone has a hard fight ahead of them.
  26. You’re never too old to need your mom.
  27. Ladies, if you make the decision to wear heels on the first date, commit to keeping them on and keeping your trap shut about how much your feet kill.
  28. Your dance moves might not be the best, but I promise making a fool of yourself is more fun then sitting on the bench alone.
  29. Smile at strangers without any reason.
  30. If you land into a fight, punch first and punch hard. Target the nose.

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